I ask this because there are many ways to approach it, and I love reading for people who want what I offer. And if you’re looking for someone to give you the winning lotto numbers, tell you what you’re “supposed” to do with your life, or predict when Mr. Right will show up at your doorstep, I’m probably not the one!
Yes, I do readings, and I love them and find them valuable. What I will not do is take your power away, or allow you to give it to me. You may think that sounds ridiculous and that of course you wouldn’t want that. But most of us have a little secret desire to have someone “do it for us”.
The illusion is that it would be easier this way. But it’s much harder.
The truth is, most of us seek guidance because we have forgotten our power and need to remember it. So when that’s what we really need, and we give more power away in our seeking, we are further from our goal and not closer.
Another truth you may have heard before is “Ask and you shall receive.” In my experience, this is true.
And so we need to be careful of both what and how we ask. The Universe will respond to both. As someone in the role of answering questions, I will redirect you if I feel there is a question inside your question.
For example, if you ask me, “How can I make him love me?” and I take you literally, the answer I give you may not lead you to any sort of happiness. There are plenty of magazines telling you how to dress, and dating coaches telling you what to say. But he may not be a match for you, or even if he is, the approach of “making him” love you might push him away.
So what exactly do you do, Ann?
In this case, I would look at what you are really desiring, which may or may not match the words I hear come out of your mouth. I might say, “Let’s look at how you can attract the love you desire whether it’s from him or not. How does that sound?” And…
I read energy. Pretty simple really.
Being psychic means sensing beyond what the physical senses reveal. Unfortunately, because there is a cultural epidemic of abandoning our power, many people interpret this as knowing what will happen in the future, or as knowing what’s best for someone else.
Here’s where your power comes in…
If you are energetically aligned with a true, heart-felt desire, that or something better is bound to happen! So what I do is NOT tell you if or when it will happen for you, but I assist you in first finding that core desire and then getting energetically aligned.
I cannot predict your future because:
1). I have no control over what you do outside of our time together (or even during it, for that matter 🙂 Nor do I have control over anyone else involved. We all have free will.
2). Life is constantly changing. As you drive down the highway, your GPS will “predict” your arrival time at a specific destination. Even the best GPS cannot predict if there will be an accident or road closure in-between now and that time. So it’s a probability. Now, your GPS may adjust moment by moment, so if you keep checking it, it will stay fairly accurate. But it’s pretty unrealistic to keep asking a psychic every minute to check in again, like you would a GPS. Not to mention exhausting for everyone! And to be quite honest, sometimes we aren’t meant to know the future, because knowing it would cause us to miss valuable experiences here and now. In fact, knowing it too soon could even keep it from happening!
I sometimes read probabilities, if I am guided to, and I always state them as such. Here are some reasons why this kind of future reading might be valuable:
- For you to get a “reality check” that if you keep doing X and Y, Z will probably happen. For example if you are spending more than you’re making, you’re likely to end up broke. It helps to think about it before you’re broke. And some people are in denial.
- Because thinking that a certain thing will happen may produce more growth than thinking it won’t happen. For example, if you date someone hoping he’s “the one” and he’s not, you may still receive a huge heart-opening and deep lessons that you would not have learned alone.
I have received several valuable readings that contained predictions. Even those, I take responsibility for creating in my world, even when in retrospect they took me on a detour. Apparently I was in alignment with those detours! Sometimes I was not ready for the change I asked for.
For those of you who feel excited at the possibility that YOU create your life, that anything can happen when you align yourself with it, I want to work with you. Maybe you think you’re doing the “right things” so you’re baffled as to why you aren’t getting what you want?
Sometimes, your heart’s request is clear, but your energy is muddy. And this can be hard to see on our own. For this type of situation, I will point out what the stuck energy is and assist you in moving it so the Universe can find it’s way to answer your heart!
So when I say I read energy, here’s what I mean:
- I tell you what I see about you and others (to the extent you/ they allow me) in present time
- I look and see who you are as a soul, and if your current 3-D life is aligned with that
- I listen and look for your deep desire regardless of what questions you ask or what story you tell me
- I point out where you are and aren’t lined up with your soul’s truth and heart’s desires, and I support you in moving into opportunities and clearing obstacles
By saying “Hello” to the soul that you are, many of your mind’s concerns often fall away. It can be such a relief!
Personal questions? Let me know if you’d like to set up a free 15 minute conversation to explore working together.